What to wear today? There's a lot to choose from...pants, skirt, jeans, leggings, shorts...For the top.. 'Is it cool today?' nope.. short sleeves, sleeveless, tube top, tank???? How to choose?
So you pick out a tank top with a short sleeve cardigan and some jeans that make your butt look great, and some high heels with straps around the ankle. Things to look forward to by the end of the day: Cold hands, pressure marks from the tight jeans on the hip, pain in the lower back, and 4 blisters located on various toes and ankles.
Why did you choose the collection of torture devices to wear on your body? Because you want THEM to think you look good/hot/attractive/feminine/sexy. Women spend hours a day and thousands of dollars a year to attract men and battle other women in desirability. What we have succeeded in by this effort is turning all women into joints/blunts. Yes, you heard me right. We are tightly wrapped contraband that is passed around to every man in the area until we are reduced to a fraction of our original selves and tossed out as soon as we don't provide any further pleasure to men.
It has been ingrained into our ripe, innocent brains from the time we were born to be 'pretty' and that the 'no pain, no gain' route is the only way to live and succeed. Its turned out to be true too, this advice from mom and dad, that you have to be attractive to get ahead in this world... Shorter skirt = more pay. Sexy hair = powerful husband. Fit body = attractive boyfriend. So WHERE in your decision making comes your own comfort?
Here is a second scenario... You wake up in the morning, slide on your favorite 5 year old baggy jeans and a t-shirt that you bought for $3, put your hair in a pony tail, and apply some lotion to your blemish free face (no makeup.. that's right...). DONE... Yup, that's it, simple and breathable day on its way... 'Order up'! We have these days now ladies.. when we are fending off a cold and no one is coming over to visit. Those days we spend in our 'natural' condition of comfort and cleanliness, sighing in realization that there is no need to guard our derrière from a 'daring air' reveal. So why don't we do this every day?
Answer: Men rule our closets because we let them.
It is in our DNA to be nurturing beings, caretakers, and mothers. We want to see pleasant smiles on the faces of pleased men. When do men smile the most? When they see a sexy figure. We made ourselves 'hot' to get those smiles because unfortunately we have not demanded that they respect us for our hearts and minds wrapped comfortably inside a jump suit.
Challenge to Sisters! I implore you to wear your size L shirts and jeans that don't show every nook and cranny of the 'grand canyon' and be comfortable for 7 days straight... only 7 days. After your feet have healed, your face has cleared up, and you look years younger having been able sleep an extra 45 minutes per day...you will NEVER want to return to the old 'joint' that you were. Start today!
"If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you." ~Fyodor Dostoyevski
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